My west coast brother informed me that today is "National Milky Way Day." While I'm guessing that they (the mysterious they who make up these days) are referring to the candy bar, which is admittedly delicious and worth celebrating, it reminds me of how much I long to see a starry night.
My spouse and I live in a very comfortable older subdivision which has been surrounded by more and more housing as the city expands around us. Consequently, there is lots of ambient light even in the middle of the night. Street lights, porch lights and security lights bathe our nights in soft light. Which is all good and well unless you want to see stars. On a really clear summer night I'm able to see two, sometimes three, stars. Technically one of those is a planet.
When my first husband and I lived in what was then "country" we were able to stand with our children in the front yard and see the Big and Little Dippers, Orion's Belt and sometimes the Milky Way. Then a traffic light was installed on our corner and it was never quite the same.
Before you feel too sad for me, let me assure you that I have seen stars in recent years. A few years ago a friend and I were traveling in Finland. One night our group was taken by bus way out into the country in hopes of seeing the Northern Lights. They did not appear but the stars were spectacular. On a cruise that my wonder spouse and I took last year, everyone was invited up on deck one clear night for some star gazing. We did see stars but, for safety, some lights on the ship had to be left on so it wasn't as spectacular as it might have been.
However, I see two good star gazing opportunities coming up. When my spouse and I go on our cruise in May we will be at sea for several nights so I have hope of seeing stars then. Even better, on the way home from that trip we will be visiting my west coast family for a few days and, if I know my brother, he will indulge me by turning off all the lights if there is a clear night, and we might actually see the Milky Way. Fingers crossed.



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