I am not musically inclined. I've always said that, when I die, I'll know I've gone to heaven if I can carry a tune.
My maternal grandfather could play several instruments 'by ear' never having taking any music lessons. I remember him playing his harmonica, which was a nice easy instrument to bring along when he came to visit. My mother had a good singing voice and played the piano. My father, on the other hand, sang in a monotone. When he was in elementary school he was actually told by one of his teachers to just mouth the words. Guess which side of the family I take after?
I blame some of my problems with singing with the seating arrangement in church. I always sat between my mom and dad. One ear was hearing good singing and one ear was hearing a monotone.
Happily, the familial music genes (although they skipped right over me) attached themselves to my children and grandchildren. When my west coast brother told me that today is "National Saxophone Day" I immediately thought of all the time I have spent watching my children and grandchildren perform in parades and competitions.
My children and my daughter's children went to Carroll High School, a local school with an excellent music program which has developed over the years. When my son and daughter were in band the band still marched in parades, and had just started going to band competitions. My first husband and I were 'pit parents' during those years, helping to get the non-marching instruments and equipment (xylophones, etc.) in position. All the necessary equipment was hauled to the football games, where they did half time shows, and to competitions, in a trailer pulled by a pickup truck.
By the time my grandson and granddaughter were marching, the equipment was hauled in a semi with the school name professionally painted on the sides. During their marching years I was very happy to just sit and watch the show.
By the way, none of my offspring ever played the saxophone. The family instruments, passed down through the years, were clarinets, a base clarinet and trombones.


